Signs a Marriage is Over - How to Know If It's Time to Call it Quits on a Troubled Marriage
By Jason T. Nelson
When you're in the middle of a troubled marriage, it can be very easy to start seeking out the signs a marriage is over. This is because all the fighting, arguing, yelling, screaming, guilt, and everything else that goes along with a troubled marriage can become seriously overwhelming.
I was in the same position not long ago in my life, and I was searching for all the reasons that my marriage was over.
My marriage had gotten so bad that my wife and I had even gotten past the screaming and yelling. We got to the point of having so much resentment that we were hardly even talking to each other unless it was necessary.
This was having an effect on not only our lives but also my children's lives. So naturally I started thinking that all the signs a marriage is over were there. But one day I read something profound that made me realize that maybe I was asking the wrong questions and looking for the wrong signs.
I realized that instead of looking for the signs that my marriage was over that maybe I should be asking myself for the signs of a marriage that could be saved. It was a paradigm shift that I HAD to go through in order to see that side.
You may be reading this looking for the signs that a marriage is over yourself. But have you actually asked yourself about the signs that your marriage is worth saving? How far in that direction have you searched?
Here's the signs that a marriage is over!
When there is physical or emotional abuse in the relationship. When there is a constant cheating that isn't being dealt with. These are significant signs that should not leave a doubt in your mind. That marriage is and should be over.
Other than that, if none of those are prevalent then there might be a good chance that you should start looking for signs that your marriage can be saved.
If you're wondering what I read to change my view from signs a marriage is over to signs that my marriage can be saved then you may want to read a very personal story where I reveal that, the effect it had on my marriage, and a little bit more by clicking here!