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My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore - What to Do When You're Wondering "Does My Husband Love Me? By Juliette Christian
"My husband doesn't love me anymore!" Most marriage counseling experts say that this is the single most heard statement they hear from wives. But it's understandable - I have gone through it too. My marriage had started so good, a great ceremony, a dream-like honeymoon... Yet, as time passed, and realities settled in, there were a lot of problems, and I was wondering: "does my husband love me?"
When you think that you lost the love of your spouse and that your marriage is ending, this quickly makes you desperate. It made me go wild with desperation, but I didn't know how to make my husband love me again. So I did the only thing I could think of: Begging him to stay in the marriage.
Of course, begging can never be the answer when you think "my husband doesn't love me anymore, what do I do?". Actually, it makes everything worse; because it makes him even more fed up with you. Yet, in that desperate situation, I know that emotions can overtake you easily and lead you to do all the wrong things. I know that you feel the urge to do something quickly to make husband love you again before the marriage slips out of your hand forever.
But, knee-jerk reactions can never be the correct answer. Do not forget that people want what they CAN'T have, not what they CAN have easily! This is why you should stay away from apologizing, begging, etc. - desperate knee-jerk reactions. When I thought "my husband doesn't love me anymore", I didn't realize that I needed to make myself harder to have, instead of easier.
So, what must really be done if you are wondering "does my husband love me, and what do I do if he doesn't?" is that you should be more elusive to him. You should pull yourself together and not look (or be) apologetic, desperate, depressed and begging. This makes you look "pathetic" and in your husband's mind, makes you a lot less attractive!
My marriage was failing on every aspect - it was such a troubled marriage that I thought there was no hope.
Yet, now I am still with my husband and I have saved my marriage. Click here to visit my website and see what I did!
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