Mending a Marriage Before it is Too Late By Bruce Howell
Pride and Ego are the main culprit in marriage failures.
Marriages usually end because couples never spend any effort trying to restore the sweetness in their relationships. Pride sometimes plays a major role among failed marriages. Couples do not think of mending marriage at first sign of trouble but instead try to keep on raising scores and continue hurting each other. They just do not realize the gravity of sending each other more darts and arrows to attempt to win over something that nobody really wins.
Win or lose, both of you suffer the pain that comes during the race to win scoring. Failing marriages occur because nobody wants to attempt to ease each other's doubts, pains, and misunderstanding. The first thing people do is respond by insulting and hurting more their partners' feelings. Mending marriage comes with the realization that each of you played a part to the break up, not just your partner, not just you but actually both of you. Trying to deny the fact that you do not have any participation or fault at all about the breaking marriage only makes restoring the relationship longer and maybe grow apart until it naturally ends.
Here are some thoughts to help you find your way back to being romantically sweet lovers again:
Spend quality time with your spouse.
Send some flowers, send a note, send a mobile message, call, or even ask your partner to dinner for a change. Spending some time with your partner makes your partner feel important. Sweet notes and messages will bring back sweet thoughts. You are trying to be the sweet person she felt in love before. Mending marriage does not care for the past and the ego. Mending marriage only care to restore the relationship and bring back the love, trust, and respect you once have.
Forget your pride or ego - especially for the man.
Forget about being the first to break the ongoing war. Forget about the past. Forget about the pain. Talk about what created the misunderstanding and reach an agreement. Humility and honesty are important if you want to keep your partner and the marriage.
Shower your other half with attention.
Try to make your partner happy by taking care of his needs and showing your love. Men sometimes just want your attention, love, and care. Spend some time hugging your partners and whispering sweet words. Feel whatever feelings or love you have for him then let him feel you still love and care for him. No man could remain cold if you tenderly show him your love.
Why is mending a marriage so important? It is because by rescuing a marriage will bond each other more closely than ever. Both of you will become one and understand more better. Sometimes, we make mistake, but does not means that we need to divorce. Remember the good times both of you are together and how you get wed.
Mending your marriage is by learning the correct method and do the necessary actions. Learn how you canmend and revive your marriage and live the marriage you ever dream of. You are invited to visit my website athttp://www.mydesirehut.com to find out how you can turn a failing marriage into a blissful one.